She just turned 21 and since our mother died almost a year ago, she's been living with me. I'm 9 years older than her and now I can say she can be very persuasive. I've told her several times that it was time for her to find her own place, she has a job and money to do it, but she always changes my head and it's been almost a year. I guess I'll miss all this if she's gone.